Negotiating .... but not really knowing to negotiate... a way of ruining all ... by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
One of the biggest problems in relationships is that we don’t really know how to express ourselves … and speak about our expectations.
Maybe that’s a disability which many can’t really know how to manage.
So … we simple shut up.
Of course … that there will be moments when we will try that … consciously or unconsciously …. to say in all sorts of weird ways what we want … but …
Many, many times … we just … fail …
It’s true.
It’s actually … the scenario experienced by so, so many people.
But … you see … life continues even if we understand or not relationships.
So … if we don’t know how to act … we simple endure the consequences.
And … there comes a time when … unfortunately … we need to convince ourselves to shut up … forever.
Stay into that story … and not say a word anymore … because we feel that if we say anything … we will just ruin all.
Which is …. stupid … into my opinion.
Unconsciously … I personally realised that this was the way in how i’ve collected lots of frustrations into my soul.
And … in fact … i’ve became … a time bomb …. randomly exploding in front of my partner from that time … and not really understanding … why.
It was all a total … nonsense.
It’s also funny… analysing my own past that i’ve also saw this at my ex partners.
… all of them.
But … all happened cause i had no idea of how to … negotiate.
So … i’ve not properly explained myself and my illusory expectations … decided to shut up not to annoy that woman from my life … then accumulated lots of frustrations … so that into the end to become an uncontrollable time bomb … which nobody knew when it will actually explode.
And … in fact … ruin all.
Again … and again … and again.
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